Stressful But Successful

The fumigation is finally over. That was a very disruptive start to my week. I would not recommend commuting from San Francisco to San Jose during rush hour for any reason. On top of that I had to cart all of my plants and my cats with me. That was a production in itself, but…

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Signs You Should Begin Billing Your Friends for Your Emotional Labor

Oh shit she's talking about EmOtIonAL LaBOr!!!!!!  What the fuck is it and why is everyone using it lately? A quick gloss over the wikipedia defines emotional labor as, "the process of managing feelings and expressions to fulfill the emotional requirements of a job." There are jobs which require more emotional intelligence than others like…

Banishing A Witch’s Curse

It's been an exhausting week to say the least. A quick summary of events, my car was broken into and both my purse and wallet were stolen. The glimmer of hope I had when realizing my license had not been taken was quickly snuffed when it fell out of my pocket while walking the day…

Can Older Generation Survivors Stop Shaming Young Survivors, or Will You Implode If You Don’t Center Every Issue Around How Right You Are.

TW: Rape, Sexual Assault, Rape Culture, Victim Blaming Caitlin Flanagan wrote this victim blaming think piece from hell on the current Aziz Ansari allegations as if a mob of college aged women were about to storm his apartment and dine on his flesh. Flanagan says she is also a survivor who just cannot relate to the…

Nice Guys Die Last

TW: for graphic angry discussion on sexual assault/rape I have tried to live in my repressed emotions hole for the last few months as sexual misconduct allegations have flooded my social media with no end in sight, but now I must breach my safety hole to come tell all of you men to shut the…

What to Leave Behind in 2018

In no particular order here are some things that made 2017 unpleasant. Bye bye! Never wanna see this shit again. Your Shitty Man  If you are unfortunately cursed with attraction to men I will be the first to sympathize our plight in the dating realm. Men are a handful and often come with a rack…